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Bzzzz September 13th, 2007

In the spirit of continuous improvement, I offer some reflections on the things I learned from gardening this summer. I also ask that you share what YOU learned this summer!

1) I am getting older. (GASP!) For now, let’s not talk about the creams, serums, elixirs and magic skin doctors, aestheticians and hair specialists that are on extravagant retainers to keep this leaky boat afloat.

bee-balm-06.20.07.gif For the garden, this ceaseless march of time means that the heavy lifting of potted trees, long and sweaty days of manual labor in 95 degree heat without rest and the improper bending are taking more of a toll than they did even five years ago. Although the grand visions of a verdant green estate with sweeping swaths of flowers and luscious vegetables continue to escalate in my mind, the fact is that I need to think more seriously about ways to lower the overall maintenance of my garden as is continues to grow. Adding fuel to this notion is the fact that the demands of my work mean that planes, trains and automobiles whisk me away from where my garden work is. I simply must simplify.

2) We cannot possibly eat all the vegetables I produce around here. To be more accurate, we cannot eat all the tomatoes and peppers we grow around here.

For the past couple of years I have been converting vegetable space to flower space. This was a good thing. The garden is more beautiful as a result. But I continue to make the mistake of planting too much of one thing and not putting in a wide enough variety. Does a family of three really need FIVE Brandywine tomato plants? Couldn’t we do with one Brandywine, one Cherokee purple and perhaps a couple of others that Hanna will recommend based on her extensive experimentation? And couldn’t I do with only one mound of cucumbers, substituting some tomatillas instead?

I suppose my mistake is based on the novice gardener’s worry that something will die. I need some backup Brandywines, right?

Perhaps now that I have a bit of experience under my belt, I can throw caution to the wind in ’08 and try a wider variety.

3) I cannot count on my local garden center to have what I want and, thus, must take matters into my own hands. I rather knew this going into my summer season, which is why I ordered this fabulous light garden to start my own plants. I found that last year I couldn’t rely on them to get anything other than the same old hybrid tomatoes. And who wants the same old petunias, impatiens and salvia that everyone else has in their garden? How about those cock’s comb? What about some fabulous black hollyhocks? (Okay, they didn’t actually grow, but that’s beside the point.) What about bachelor’s buttons, pink spiked cleosa or Chinese forget-me-nots?

Light%20Garden.jpg I was reminded of this fact yet again when I traipsed down to the garden center this past weekend with my fingers crossed. My ceaseless business travel meant that my good intentions of starting cabbages, collards, lettuces, leeks and such didn’t actually happen. What did they have at the garden center? Nada. Now look at me. Nothing to plant for the fall. This weekend will be spent traveling hither and yon looking for bedding plants.

Sigh.

4) My interest in topics related to sustainability, organic living, locally grown foods and other environmental issues has grown exponentially. All my life I have been an avid reader of fiction. Now I cannot get enough of reading about gardens, birds, organic alternatives, slow food, massive experiments in alternative organic living and local food eating.

My family worries that I am stepping a bit too close to the edge for their comfort. When I recently suggested to my husband that we needed to look for Maryland rather than Washington apples, he looked as if I had slapped him. My son wouldn’t hear of giving up his UPS delivered Omaha steaks in lieu of butternut squash patties. When I talk about reading Barbara Kingsolver’s book Animal, Vegetable, Miracle, their eyes glaze over.

When I trade in my St. John suits for muslin jumpers, I believe they will stage an intervention.

5) There is a fabulous community of gardeners out there who write and read garden blogs. They have helped me to identify plants, butterflies and bugs. They have provided moral support when my spirits were flagging and the weeds were winning. They have provided a chuckle when I needed it. They have given me dangerous ideas (according to my family, anyway).

When I divulge my interest in blogging about gardens, I explain that it’s like taking a walk around the block and looking over my neighbor’s fences to see how their gardens grow. In turn, they come to visit mine. We don’t trade zucchini for cucumbers or borrow each others’ power tools, but we do share everything else. How wonderful to have met such a truly big hearted group of people—that I didn’t even know I was going to meet!

Now, I’m not a big believer in memes, on the theory that it’s just too much pressure for the ordinary person. But I would truly love to hear what you have learned from gardening this summer. If you can manage, I would particularly love to hear from the people whose blogs are listed in the garden blogs section to the left here. And if your blog isn’t here, please do it anyway and make sure to let me know.

Your faithful gardener,

–Robin (Bumblebee)

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It may still be hot as Hades when I’m pulling weeds in the heat of the afternoon, but the early signs of fall are unmistakable.

First, the terrifying spiders that thrive out here in the country and are an integral part of our household fall landscape have arrived. They are as large as a silver dollar (not even counting their legs!) and look like they found their way into a vat of growth hormones. To top it off, they’re always decked out in their festive Halloween orange and yellow colors. I think they look like someone’s idea of what a really, really scary spider is supposed to look like. Only it’s real. This is not fake.

I always chuckle to see families down at the local Wal-Mart buying up plastic spider and spiderweb decorations for Halloween. No need here at our house. We have the real thing going on! Come and take some of ours! Please!

No really, I do tell myself that the spider serves an important role in keeping down the undesirable insect population. Still, I’m always a bit creeped out, particularly when I walk into one of the webs…And the spider jumps onto my shoulder…And he scampers onto my face…And I realize. IT’S A SPIDER ON MY FACE!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I have to run around and dance around and hop up and down while my arms are flailing and trying to get the scary spider off my face. And I fall down because I tripped on one of the little dogs who was barking because I was making scary noises.

AAAAAARRRRRRRRRRHHHHHHH!!!!!!

Need to calm down now. I’ll be alright. I’ll just sit right here and tremble for a bit. And mew.

And Now, A Happy Subject…

One of the more pleasant signs that summer is winding down is that the clematis on the gate entrance is blooming. I love to just sit on the garden bench and stare at it. I know, it seems a little feeble. But I just like to sit and stare at it.

Not do anything. Just stare.

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And stare some more.

You have to love a plant that comes back year after year, grows like mad and then pops out with so many little white flowers it looks almost like frosting on the fence.

Our garlic chives have rallied for a second go-round of blooming and are, I think, absolutely gorgeous. I think they are prettier than a lot of flowers that I grow. And you can eat them too! And they keep coming back every year! And the moles don’t like them!

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